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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Fear and Insecurity

There are weaknesses in us which we are aware of, and others which are new-found in our minds, when facing fresh situations.Whichever is the type, weakness is a draining mechanism, it robs us of our vital force the 'confidence' and thus impairing us to face what others may find a normal situation, let alone the tricky ones.

The weakness does not show its ugly head, until we are faced with a situation that renders us weak or acknowledges it, by demanding a strong and composed state of mind, when we can't have one. Even at the thought of facing it, we become restless and by all means try to avoid it or push it down the line if its inevitable. It can be anything like being among a crowd of 1000 people, traveling along steep valleys, facing bullies, flying in a plane, cut-throat business competition, etc.

The greater problem is, our deep-rooted insecurities coupling with our weaknesses, when this happens it makes up for one of the worst days of our life. The state we get into thus is, fear. Fear grips us tightly, we can't breathe, can't think neither can we do anything else, we are simply crippled. Fear in itself may be a negative emotion on almost all occasions but, it is this fear, which forces us to think beyond our problem, show courage and to do what we have never done before. Fear, thus can also be a key to our hidden potential, unleashed in the wake of lurking danger.

A certain day you fear facing your weakness and suddenly you even see a chance to lose a precious thing or even your beloved, you make out by then you are doomed. Yes these days come, we have to stand-up and march ahead, this is what is called 'Against All Odds', we have to keep walking in all circumstances.

All the situations, each problem, every enemy says to us, 'Be More Strong the Next Time', because confrontations will always take place, until we live. So the way to LIVE the Life is only one, 'Be Good and Strong', but be ready to face the fears and live beyond them, thus overcoming weaknesses and putting to rest the insecurities.

12 comments:

Neneng Tarigan said...

Yes u r right that fear in itself may be a negative emotion, but that would be a positive emotion if we are fear of God, fear of hurting people, fear of not becoming successful; because that can be a driving engine to force us to a better success and be liked by others.

dhamriyani said...

Philosophically Awakening Article Krane...! I found it very true and well said. Many a times in life, insecurities leads the way we live, we think and we react to different situations. We must treat our insecurities with "Chill out buddy! I will handle it" attitude.

Hitesh said...

Its true our fears behold us from doing many things, we must to overcome our fear. The pics are very good.

Hitesh said...

Its true our fears behold us from doing many things, we must to overcome our fear. The pics are very good. One suggestion I usually feel good to read is something that has a little humor in it, try to incorporate it in your writing. Take it on the brighter side.

CRD said...

All I'll say is "What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger"

Cheers
CRD

princeofusa said...

What we dont realize is our potential if we will be able to achieve whats expected out of us.
That happens most times coz you havent done that thing before. For instance, cooking food for the first time...
Its only after you have tried you know ur potential, rest is your attitude if you want to do better than what you did last time.
Insecurity is important to keep your valuables secured. Valuables in-security is Insecurity.

Markus said...

Truth in every word... The writer working very hard & sincerely to bring up some interesting & fascinating matter to the world, that need to raised & bring forward these days.

Markus said...

Truth in every word... The writer working very hard & sincerely to bring up some interesting & fascinating matter to the world, that need to raised & bring forward these days.

manisha said...

its a fact that fear itself bring a negative emotion or always leads inbad times...many times v avoid facing the situations in which v habitually feel fear,and v leave many things undone,or v try to hide our fear so no one else vl see!!!!

manisha said...

its a fact that fear itself bring a negative emotion or always leads inbad times...many times v avoid facing the situations in which v habitually feel fear,and v leave many things undone,or v try to hide our fear so no one else vl see!!!!

manisha said...

its a fact that fear itself bring a negative emotion or always leads inbad times...many times v avoid facing the situations in which v habitually feel fear,and v leave many things undone,or v try to hide our fear so no one else vl see!!!!

manisha said...

its a fact that fear itself bring a negative emotion or always leads inbad times...many times v avoid facing the situations in which v habitually feel fear,and v leave many things undone,or v try to hide our fear so no one else vl see!!!!